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How it works

A calm, structured path through family mediation

A brief explanation of how family mediation works with our practice.

The process

From first meeting to agreed proposals

01

MIAM

You each attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting separately. The mediator explains the process, screens for suitability, and you can share concerns and ask questions.

02

Joint sessions

If mediation is suitable, joint sessions are arranged. Child arrangements often need one to two sessions; finances two to three; both together typically three to four.

03

Written outcomes

For children matters we prepare a confidential Outcome Statement and Parenting Plans. For finances: an Open Financial Statement and a confidential Memorandum of Understanding.

Mediation is voluntary. Neither of you is compelled to participate — but by working together you can often reach agreements that work well for you and your family, and avoid the cost and strain of protracted court proceedings.

Once you have proposals you both find acceptable, you can take the summaries to your solicitors for advice. If you remain happy with the proposals, lawyers can convert them into a legally binding document where appropriate.

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Your mediators

You will work with Vicky or Sarah

The same accredited mediator stays with you from the MIAM through joint sessions and the written outcomes. Meet them on the About page, or say who you would prefer when you get in touch.

Vicky Robertson
Vicky Robertson
Sarah Horseman
Sarah Horseman

Have questions about the process?

We are happy to talk you through what to expect before you book.